Why Must Every Discussion About Autism Be a Social Critique?
Autism stories often focus on societal critique, but autistic voices deserve space to share authentic experiences and perspectives.
As an autistic person, I often find myself frustrated by how nearly every text about autism inevitably turns into a critique of society. Yes, the world could do better at accommodating neurodiversity. Yes, many of us feel misunderstood or unsupported. But why must the conversation always focus on how society treats us, rather than who we actually are? It feels as though the essence of autism – our experiences, perspectives, and realities – is constantly overshadowed by a larger social agenda.
Who Decides What Matters?
Why can’t an article about autism in women simply talk about what it feels like to be autistic, without diving into a critique of societal shortcomings? There’s so much that’s unique and fascinating about autistic experiences: our deep interests, our sharp observations, our ability to see patterns others miss. These aren’t societal issues; they’re parts of who we are. Yet these aspects are often sidelined in favor of a narrative that prioritizes activism over authenticity.
Now, don’t get me wrong – there is a time and place for societal critique. But does every text about autism have to be a mirror held up to society? Sometimes, I just want to read about how other autistic people experience the world, without being reminded of how “hard” life is in a neurotypical society. Honestly, I already know. I live it every day.
Why not simple listen?
What’s missing is space for a nuanced narrative that acknowledges us as individuals with our own experiences and challenges. Instead of constantly talking about how society could integrate us better, why not focus on the richness of our perspectives? Why not center autistic voices without immediately translating them into lessons for the neurotypical world?
Imagine an article about autism that simply explores what it feels like to mask, how it impacts us, and what we personally need to feel more comfortable in our own skin. Imagine a piece that prioritizes connection and recognition among autistic readers, rather than educating a neurotypical audience. Too often, these texts feel like they’re written more for others than for us.
Autism Deserves Its Own Story
I understand why social critique often plays a role in autism narratives. There’s a lot that needs to change. But here’s the thing: we’re more than victims of an inadequate system. Autism isn’t just a struggle or a deviation; it’s also an identity, a perspective, a way of being. That side of the story deserves just as much attention.
So, to anyone writing about autism: ask yourself who you’re really trying to reach. Are you trying to educate neurotypical readers, or are you hoping to foster a sense of community and recognition among autistic people? If it’s the latter, consider leaving the social critique aside for once. Give us the space to simply be ourselves – without constantly making it about everyone else.
