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Understanding the Predictive Brain: Absolute Thinking in a Relative World — A Personal Perspective on Love and Relationships
As an adult with autism and a person with lived experience, I found Peter Vermeulen’s book “Autism and the Predictive Brain: Absolute Thinking in a Relative World” to be a compelling read. It provided me with new insights into how my brain functions. These insights are not only scientifically intriguing but have also prompted me to reflect on my daily life, particularly in the realm of love and relationships. In this article, I would like to share my personal experiences and reflections on how the predictive brain influences my love life and the strategies that help me improve my relationship with my partner.
Understanding the Predictive Brain
Vermeulen explains that our brain continuously makes predictions about what is going to happen based on past experiences and the context in which we find ourselves. This means that our brain actively anticipates what might come next, rather than passively waiting for information. For me, and many other people with autism, predictability is a crucial factor for well-being. Unexpected changes can cause stress and anxiety, which also impacts relationships.
Sensory Processing and Intimacy
