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The Secret Lives of Autistics: Stories You’ve Never Heard Before

Autistic lives are vibrant and complex, full of unseen stories that challenge stereotypes and celebrate unique perspectives.

@Tistje
5 min readJan 14, 2025
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In the depths of a crowded room, among clinking glasses and swirling conversations, sits Nora, her fingers tracing the rim of her untouched drink. She’s smiling faintly, watching, absorbing. To an onlooker, she might seem aloof, detached even, but her mind is alive with the silent music of patterns — the way the chandelier’s crystals catch the light in perfect symmetry, the rhythm of laughter punctuating the air. Nora doesn’t miss a thing, though few notice her. She sees the stories that go untold, the moments that slip past others. The color of someone’s tie revealing their nervousness, the way a hand trembles ever so slightly, betraying an untold anxiety. She weaves these fragments together into narratives that no one else perceives.

This is one of many secret lives that unfold quietly, invisibly. Autistics, often viewed through the narrow lens of stereotypes, carry worlds within them. Their experiences are not confined to statistics or diagnostic criteria; they are stories of humanity, resilience, joy, and complexity. They are storytellers, observers, creators of meaning in a world that often rushes…

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Written by @Tistje

Ervaringswerker autisme / Autistic Advocate / Autism Ambassador

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