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The Power of Nuance: Striking a Balance in an Autistic Life
Navigating extremes, I’ve learned to balance happiness and functionality, embracing nuance in my autistic experience.
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” — Marcus Aurelius
As an autistic man, I often find myself navigating a world that invites me to choose between extremes. One day, I am celebrated as someone with unique talents; the next, it seems society views my existence as a problem to be solved. This constant balancing act is challenging, but it has taught me an invaluable lesson: the importance of staying critical — both toward myself and the world around me.
This is not a manifesto for one perspective or another. It’s a call for nuance, for finding equilibrium where happiness and functionality coexist. Today, I want to share my experiences and insights, hoping they inspire you to keep a cool head, no matter your background.
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