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The Many Ways We Communicate: Understanding Autistic Conversations
Communication between autistics is as diverse, rich, respectful, dynamic and complex as between other groups in society.
Communication among autistic people is often overlooked, but it is just as complex as interactions with neurotypical individuals. While some of us share traits like a preference for clear language, our communication styles are as varied as autism itself. This diversity can lead to meaningful connections but also to unexpected challenges and misunderstandings.
It’s a stereotype that all autistics speak plainly, without sugarcoating
A common belief about autistic communication is that we are all direct and honest. This stereotype suggests that we speak plainly, without sugarcoating, but that is not always the case. Many autistic people communicate indirectly, carefully choosing words to avoid conflict or because they feel unsure about how their message will be received. Honesty, too, is not universal. Some of us adjust our honesty to fit the situation, balancing truth with sensitivity. This shows how diverse our ways of expressing ourselves really are.
