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Neuropleasure, an expression of neurodiversity, explains unique autistic sexuality, emphasizing clear communication, consent, adaptability and promotes self-discovery and better relationships through personalized experiences
As an autistic adult in a partner relationship, the concept of neuropleasure is not merely a theoretical framework; it is an essential part of my daily life and interactions. From my personal experience, I offer a sharp critical reflection on neuropleasure and its impact on autistic sexuality and relationships.
What is Neuropleasure?
Neuropleasure describes how I, as an autistic individual, experience sexuality in a way that is unique to me and does not necessarily align with societal expectations. This concept acknowledges the flexibility and context-dependency of my sexual desires and behaviors, and it provides a framework to better understand and navigate them.
Key Characteristics of Neuropleasure
- Own Rules: Neuropleasure allows me to set our own rules about how we experience sexuality. This means that my partner and I do not have to conform to societal norms of what is considered “normal.” For example, spontaneous sexual encounters often do not work for us; We prefer planned intimacy where…
