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Intimacy, Sex and Autism: Beyond the Physical
As an autistic man, in a fulfilling sex life, I write on my experiences of love and intimacy, highlighting communication, emotional connection, and managing sensory sensitivities.
As an autistic man in a relationship with a woman, I want to share my experiences about sexuality and intimacy. Many people discuss this topic, and some think autistic people can’t enjoy intimacy. I disagree. My experiences might be different from others on the autism spectrum, but here’s my story.
More Than Just Physical
For me, making love is more than just the physical act. It’s about a deep emotional bond. My partner and I talk and share our feelings before being intimate. This emotional connection makes our physical closeness more meaningful.
Research Insight: Studies show that many autistic people value emotional connection over physical acts. Emotional intimacy is a big part of relationship satisfaction.
Sensory Sensitivities
Sensory issues are a big part of my sexual experiences. Certain touches, smells, sights, or sounds can be…
